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The Kindness Imperative

Mark Walland

Jan 31 2024

12 mins

Each morning the encounter is the same. The fridge magnet regards me with equal measures of emollience and accusation:

Everyone is fighting a battle
you know nothing about.
Be kind.
Always.

To be kind means to be gentle, benevolent and friendly. What could be wrong with being kind? If I can support you, then surely I should. Kindness is seemingly needed by everyone; and should be provided by … everyone.

There is a softness—a yielding—to this kindness that might struggle to fit with the reality of a world of hard edges bumping together. How far ought this kindness extend? Beyond the home and the friendship group, corporate training courses abound that urge the creation of a kind work environment that will be friendly, supportive, understanding, inspiring and happy.

The modern embrace by Western youth of seemingly never-quite-dead socialism may be sheeted home to concepts of kindness. Surely in abundance it is better to share (irrespective of how that abundance was accrued):…

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